1) Your Time
How many of you are too busy with your
own lives to give your time to others? Being busy
is an excuse and a reason not to go out of your way.
People need you and love you. They want to see you.
Let them have some time with you.
2) Your Support
How many of you really support the
people in your life? What I mean by support is
encouragement and reasons to try something new,
not 10 different reasons why it won't work for them.
Just because it didn't work this time. There's nothing
better than telling a person that they can do
whatever they want in this world.
3) Your Acceptance
This may be a toughie for some.
This means unconditional love and the ability to
love someone for who they are and not what you want
them to be. It means giving up how you think their life
should go ... accepting them for what they want to do
with their lives. This is the greatest gift that you
can give to the people in your life.
4) Your Attention
How many of you really listen to the
people in your life? For everyone who just said
"Of course I do" then why are the people in your life
asking you to repeat what they have just said?
It's because they know that you didn't hear them. Take
a few minutes, stop what you are doing, and focus
on the people who you love. Aren't they worth it? And
who knows, you may even learn something that you
thought you already knew.
5) Your Forgiveness
Forgiving people for past mistakes
and hurts is one of the greatest gifts you can
give them. After all they are only human. Plus, I'm
sure that you haven't been the perfect human being either.
Keeping hurt and anger in your life is just an
excuse not to get close to people for fear that they
will hurt you again.
6) Your Patience
How many of you can't even be with
the people you love because they are taking too
long to tell a story or are taking longer than "you
think" to complete a project that you think should take a
lesser time. How do you know that there isn't a
better way to do something if the people around you
always have to do it your way? Having patience with
people shows that they are respected and loved. Isn't
this a great gift to give to people around you?
7) Your Love
People want to know that they are special
in your life and that you care about them. If
there are things that are keeping you from loving them
such as conversations that you want to have with them,
but you're afraid, my advice is to say it. Sometimes
you have to take risk to achieve an open and
rewarding relationship. Take the risk and give your love.
8) Your Ideas
Sometimes people want to move forward in
their lives but they don't know how. You may know
something that they never thought of. And who
knows, your ideas may change somebody's life. So
go ahead, don't be afraid to share what you know.
9) Your Smile
There is nothing better than entering a
room seeing someone smile when you walk in. Right
then and there you know that your presence makes a
difference in their life. A smile is easy. You
just grin upward. Plus, you burn many more calories
then from frowning.
10) A Hug
Human touch warms the heart and keeps us
connected. In addition, it doesn't take much
effort, it costs nothing, and it makes someone's
day. Couldn't you find time in your schedule to hug
someone you love today?
"It's good to have money and the things money can buy. But it's good too, to check up once in a while and make sure you haven't lost the things that you can't buy."
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